Monday, March 17, 2008

Real Estate

I am so tired of selling houses.  This is the 4th house we have sold in the last 4 years.  We have always been really lucky and have sold our houses really fast.  I keep thinking that our luck has run out (even though it has only been about a week).  I always go through this.  Plus, the housing market has changed drastically in this country.  However, the housing market in Tulsa is actually much better than a lot of the country, at least that is what all the experts say.  Our home prices haven't plummeted.  The market here has always been really steady and stable.  And, they keep cutting interest rates, which is bad for the value of the dollar, but good for people wanting to buy houses. 

But, I hate always having to keep the house spotless, having to worry about every little mess the kids make.  They need to be able to make messes, they are kids!!  I feel like I am being a tyrant mom.  I hate all of the stress it creates, worrying about the future, what will we do if the house doesn't sell soon enough, etc.  We were going to rent when we first moved here, but couldn't find anything to suit our needs in the short amount of time we had to look.  So, we will rent when we get to Spokane, even though we plan on being there for much longer  (we planned on being here for much longer, after all).   The bright side is, we get to move back to the northwest!!!  I am thrilled about that .  But I am so over selling houses.  I just want it to be over with.  I know I need to have faith that we are making the right decision for our family, so it will all work out.  But accepting the unknown is a very uncomfortable  place for me to be.    Anyway, I 'm done with my rant, I need to go to bed (after I get the house cleaned up, of course :).

3 comments:

Mary Child said...
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Mary Child said...

Oh Becky, I hear you. Jon and I closed on the house we're living in now before our old one sold, and I was stressed out of my mind that if we didn't sell the old one we'd have to make two mortgage payments for awhile (not very realistic). It was so stressful, and it felt like every spare second of our time was spent taking care of issues in the old house so we could get it sold. Luckily it did sell and we never had to pay two mortgages at the same time, but during the 6 week interim, I was a basket case! And having to live life while trying to keep the house immaculate all the time... it's so stressful! I feel your pain! Just hang in there and trust that it will all work out... Congratulaions on your move to Spokane; you will LOVE it there!

Erin said...

Sorry to hear your stress, but cool to hear you're going to be back in the intermountain west. Spokane is only 6 hours from here.

We were so spoiled when we moved to Montana. Mike's job paid for movers - I didn't even have to pack. They also paid for the realtor to sell the Hyrum house and paid for closing costs on the new house. Our house in Montana even found us before we even knew when we were moving for sure. The one thing I never did leading up to all of this was think about or imagining what I didn't want. I only focused on what I did want. Even if it isn't what makes things happen for you, at least you feel better in the meantime. I can't imagine doing this with 3 kids in tow, but if anyone can make it happen, I am sure it is you.